How to Get Your Life Together Checklist

Hey you,

If your mind feels messy and your energy’s low, I want you to know — it’s okay. I see you.

Maybe you're wondering, “How did I even get here?”

You’re not broken. You’re just in a season where something deep inside is asking for your attention. Your soul is craving peace, clarity, and alignment.

You’re not failing. You’re being called to do the inner work. The quiet work. The kind that changes everything — even if no one else sees it.

This isn’t about fixing everything overnight. It’s about coming home to yourself — with patience, discipline, and love.

You don’t need a full life makeover. You just need a rhythm. A guide. A reminder that you can get your life together — piece by piece, from the inside out.

This is your Getting Your Life Together Checklist.

And it starts with you.

1. Get Clear With Yourself

Ask: What do I want?

Light a candle, grab a pen, and sit with your thoughts. Write down your goals — not the ones people expect from you, the ones your soul wants.

Helpful tools:

• Guided journal for clarity and vision
  
  

• Scented candle to create a calm, safe space
  
  

“You are the most important project you will ever work on.”

2. Start and End Your Day With Gratitude

Say thank you — out loud, to yourself.
Train your mind to find the light, even on hard days.
Try: “I’m grateful I made it through today.”
It doesn’t have to be big. Just real.

Helpful tools:

• Affirmation deck to pull a positive message each morning
  
  

“Follow your plan, not your mood.”

3. Make Self-Love and Discipline a Daily Practice

Show up for yourself, especially when it's hard.
Self-love isn’t just bubble baths — it’s boundaries, habits, and choosing what’s good for you long term.

Helpful tools:

• Habit Tracker Notepad – to build momentum and stay consistent
  

“Discipline is the highest form of self-love.”

4. Breathe. Meditate. Stay Present.

Pause. Be still. Listen inward.
You don’t need to react to everything — you get to choose peace.

Helpful tools:

• Breathing Exercise Cards – like Mindful & Modern Breathing Cards, a simple way to reset your mind in stressful moments
  
  

• Essential oil roller for calm on-the-go
  
  

“Act like the person you want to become.”

5. Protect Your Energy: Set Boundaries and Know Your Triggers
Say no without guilt. Know your worth. Write down what stresses you and drains your energy — plus ways to deal with them. Set clear boundaries to keep your peace.

Helpful tools:

• Sticky notes with “No is a full sentence” reminders

• Prompted reflection journal to track your triggers and stress

• Self-help book on boundaries

"The pain of discipline or the pain of regret."

6. Step Outside and Breathe
When things feel heavy, go outside. Walk. Breathe deep. Let the fresh air reset your soul. It’s simple, free — and sometimes exactly what you need to feel grounded

Helpful tools:

• Water bottle — Hydrate, breathe, keep going.
  

"Be your priority."

7. Learn Something New, Every Day

Growth keeps you alive.
Read a page. Watch a TED Talk. Ask questions.— especially to yourself.
Why did I react that way?
Do I really believe that?
Is this helping me grow?

Helpful tools:

The Let Them Theory — A mindset-shifting book to help you release control and find peace.

“Growth over comfort.”

8. Surround Yourself With Good Energy

Your environment matters.
Spend time with people who make you feel seen and safe — even if that’s just yourself for now.

Helpful tools:

• Essential Oil Diffuser with 8 Essential Oils Set — Create a calming atmosphere that supports your peace, focus, and mood.

• Bluetooth speaker for high-vibe music — and dance for yourself, because movement releases endorphins, helping you feel happy and energized.

“I am becoming the best version of myself.”

9. Clean Your Space, Clear Your Mind

Start with your room.
Fresh space = fresh thoughts.

Helpful tools:

• Room spray — A quick reset for your space (and your mood).
  
  

• Storage baskets — Less mess, more peace.
  
  

“Whenever you’re not changing, you’re choosing.”

10. Shift Your Mindset Gently

Judge less. Be honest. Let go.
Start catching your own thoughts. Are they helping or hurting you?

Helpful tools:

• Mindset journal — Get the thoughts out so you can see what’s really going on.
  
  

“Just because it’s taking time doesn’t mean it’s not happening.”

Why This Checklist Works

Because real change doesn’t come from new skincare, better haircare, or flawless makeup.

It comes from the inside.

You can glow on the outside and still feel lost inside — and most people try to fix the surface while ignoring the parts that actually need healing.

This checklist is about doing the work within — the habits, mindset, and self-respect that no product can give you.

When your soul glows, your body shines.
It’s always inside out.